The negative cognition-generating question! "What does that say about you? can be used at any point in the process, when the movement turns in a positive direction. For example, a male client was working On the beatings he received his older brother who had been beaten by their father. "My brother passed on the abuse, but I didn't turn and find another victim." "And what does that say about you?" "I guess I'm a caring person." EM.
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